Discussion area for adult survivors who are afraid they might hurt others physically, sexually, emotionally, and/or verbally. Also an area for those who have harmed someone physically, sexually, emotionally, and/or verbally and want to heal. Sexual addiction can also be discussed.

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Post by sweet3256 » Tue Mar 03, 2015 1:40 am

I been doing a lot of reading as of late in regards to the behaviors we hold onto when we have this type of trauma. I see so much of myself in it. I have a tendency to always want to please. I go to extremes. I feel as though if i do not constantly give no one will want to connect with me, love me, or care for me. I see things as no one wants to support me but yet i have so many good supportive family members and friends. i often afraid to ask for help. i think i have to be superwoman, How do i tackle braking this cycle? Do I have the power inside me to change?

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Re: Behaviors

Post by recover » Tue Mar 03, 2015 2:19 am

hi sweet3256,
i relate very much.
with support,

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Re: Behaviors

Post by pinecone » Tue Mar 03, 2015 3:06 am

Hi Sweet3256,

Yep, I felt like I was reading my biography the first time I read a book on codependency!

we can heal, we can recover.


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Re: Behaviors

Post by ag01 » Wed Apr 01, 2015 7:56 pm

Hi sweet3256

I understand completely, still a work in progress for me
Have hope it will change
Much support

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