TRANSFERENCE

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jimscarlet
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TRANSFERENCE

Post by jimscarlet » Sat Feb 09, 2019 11:02 pm

Greetings Friends,
I hope what I am about to say is taken VERY SERIOUSLY.
I have just made a list of 18,yes 18 things I have TRANSFERRED from m+f to
myself. We do this all the time,and unconsciously,so we can think it is US,
when it is THEM! E.G. I usually feel depressed and 'less-than' when I am hurt
or ill in any way . . .why? Well,dear m+f did not LIKE their little slave to be
incapacitated in any way,so they (especially HER) would moan and criticise
me,like when I had a cold:" Stop that f . .. ing coughing you!" Jesus,imagine
putting that onto a little child who could not prevent cold virus.That is only
one of 18! If you have any problems with self at all,look BACK to see if you
can make a connection to them,mental or physical,you may be able to stop
blaming dear self for something that doesn't really belong to you.
Courage,
jimscarlet

earthhorse
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Re: TRANSFERENCE

Post by earthhorse » Mon Feb 11, 2019 1:51 pm

Beautifully put!

Thanks so much for bringing this up! I really needed to be reminded of this.

You are doing powerful work!

Love,
EH
"One kind word can warm three winter months"

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