Fleur's 2019 Thread

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Tue Feb 19, 2019 8:18 pm

Fleur
Sorry that the helicopter noise is triggering to you. Good that you shared with pdoc. Hope that EMDR. Could address this in future.

Dental work—- my fave! Congrats for doing it. Hope pain subsides in a timely manner.
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Tue Feb 19, 2019 8:58 pm

Dear there


Thank you for writing - especially as you are enjoying a vacation

Now that I know from where all my symptoms originate re helicopters, I'm hoping I can return to reality faster

Still have a peculiar sensation in part of my tongue and lip. Gum is tender where filling repaired, but all else back to "normal" this morning

Really grateful for reasonably lengthy slumber. Was desperately needed

When I was assessed for EMDR, I was asked my goals around admission. One I did not say relates to childhood emotional impact. With pdoc yesterday, I recalled isolated examples of parental abuse. Affected me such that extra sh occurred - if Dad saw blood, he'd walk away. I use the word "extra," because some was a deliberate choice whilst I used the littlest room

Consequently, have awoken to fresh pain


Wishing you and Tula a wonderful time
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Couragetoday » Thu Feb 21, 2019 1:52 pm

Hi Fleur,

Wow, thanks for sharing how you see me.
If I was 1/2 that I’d be pleased indeed.

The trigger you described sounds a difficult one, but glad you’ve identified it.
Hopefully knowing can lead to strategies and coping well.

Really hope the EMDR program will be helpful.

Gentle hugs,

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Fri Feb 22, 2019 12:03 pm

Hello Couragetoday


Thank you
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Fri Feb 22, 2019 4:13 pm

Fleur,
Helps to identify a trigger as you have. Good work, and as Ct, said, could help you develop strategies to cope well.

Hope dental symptoms have resolved by now. I made my cleaning appt, having read about yours.So thanks!

Hope your weekend has lighthearted times :)
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Noname » Fri Mar 01, 2019 6:06 pm

Just stopping in to say hi. Been thinking about you.

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Fri Mar 01, 2019 7:25 pm

Hello there, had thought I'd written. Obviously not. Thank you for your kindness




Hello NN, often think of you, wonder how you are going. Insiders (as does adult) appreciate your posts




Wishing us all a lovely weekend
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Sat Mar 02, 2019 3:23 am

Hi, Fleur,

you're very kind to me, Fleur.
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Sat Mar 02, 2019 6:26 am

Maybe because we have a reciprocal communication, there
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Sat Mar 02, 2019 11:27 am

Fleur,
Yeah, I;m glad of that. :)
I'm my reality, not somebody else's low opinion.

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