Fleur's 2019 Thread

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Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Wed Jan 02, 2019 10:24 am

Hello everyone


As the calendar for 2019 began yesterday with a great lunch, it is time to commence a new thread


Wishing each person a year of many special moments
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Wed Jan 02, 2019 5:14 pm

Same for you, dear Fleur :)
'Paris is always a good idea.' --Audrey Hepburn

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by reisha » Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:41 am

Yea! For the great lunch & the new yr.its already oodles betterthan 2018. May it stay thatway!
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by wolfspirit » Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:10 am

Fleur,
So happy to read your posts
Same happiness wishes sent back to you ~~~

sending gentle pats to Soxy and smiles to you

<3
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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:36 pm

Thank you for writing to me wolfspirit, reisha, there


Supposed to have had CT scan but veins refused to co-operate. Ultrasound shows veins have literal bumps - probably from too many pokes - which normally will rectify itself. At least I now know that I was being reasonable and not inventing pain. Scan rescheduled for 24th, as a fortnight is generally long enough for veins to heal. Hmmmm. We'll see. It was suggested (excellent idea!) that we aim for iron infusion, if required , to be done same day to use same canula

Soxy is with Foo until Dr decides what, if anything, is going to happen. However, with scan delayed, I'll ask sister to deliver him when she can after he sees Vet - and I'll give her Christmas gifts to pass on, along with a parcel to welcome her baby granddaughter born 1st September

Despite having slept better, am still tired


May we each enjoy a great weekend
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by there » Fri Jan 04, 2019 12:56 am

Fleur,
pesky needles! not sure it would help, maybe you already know this one... Drinking enough water before blood draw/ infusion. Probably has nothing to do with bumps, though. Dang!

Sucks you will probably be so glad to see you! And you sucsy!

I think the holidays are tiring for many people.

Hope you have a great weekend, too, fleur.
'Paris is always a good idea.' --Audrey Hepburn

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by recover » Fri Jan 04, 2019 12:58 am

wishing you well for both the physical and emotional hurts.
thank you for your friendship it means a lot.
recover xo

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Couragetoday » Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:53 am

Good to read update Fleur.
Fingers crossed veins cooperate and tests can go as planned.
Wishing you a speedy reunion with Soxy....guessing you are missing him.

Here’s to the new year starting off well...

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by Fleur » Fri Jan 04, 2019 4:14 am

Thanks once again for messages.

There - smiled at dictated spelling of Soxy. I appreciate your thoughts re water. Was a four hour food fast with minimum of a litre water to be consumed. I had over two litres first day and about 1.5 litres drunk second when canula was to be inserted. Flushed beautifully when Dr finished, but not when nurse tried a bit later

Recover - have often wondered how you were. Guessed you were in low point. I even wished you and I could attend a therapeutic centre to have negativity resolved. For me, it is the immediacy of reliving flashbacks I'd like to change

Couragetoday - you'd know more than me about tests and procedures, I'm sure. Grateful for your being here

..........


I was going to share more but am too tired


Wishing each of you an excellent year
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur

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Re: Fleur's 2019 Thread

Post by GrowingTree » Sun Jan 06, 2019 11:30 am

Thinking of you Fluer
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