Hello everyone,
While I try to figure out the best place to post my story (and while I build up the courage to do so), I thought a softball might be a good idea
My story is a complicated one that spans more than ten years. I am a survivor of CSA and have extensive DA. I cannot remember any real detail of my childhood, sometimes I can recall a snapshot of a memory (good or bad) but if I try to hold or examine it, the memory fades away. As I started work with a therapist, I realized that it's not just childhood memory's that are lost- even events that happened a few weeks ago have the same slippery feel.
I also have great difficulty feeling any type of emotion- happiness, joy, anger, sadness- right now these are just words to me with no weight behind them. Sometimes I feel something start to come, then wham, any feeling gets pushed down.
Somehow, despite how broken I think I am, I have had good success in life. I am married, have two kids and a successful career.
As my name suggests, I am trying to learn how to heal, but progress seems so slow most days.
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Reason: Changed MT to NT for no triggering detail
Reason: Changed MT to NT for no triggering detail
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Hi and welcome, LearningToHeal. I'm sorry for the reasons, but glad you are here. When it comes to healing it does feel like very very slow progress, but my old T used to say "slow is fast". These things take time, and it's perfectly normal to feel like maybe you're taking "too long". But I know from experience if you try to rush it, it only makes things worse. You can do this.
With care,
Serenity
With care,
Serenity
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Welcome LearningToHeal!
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Hi LearningToHeal
A very warm welcome from me too
A very warm welcome from me too
You are important
Email: jonesy@isurvive.org
Email: jonesy@isurvive.org
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Hi LearningToHeal,
Welcome. I hope that you can find peace and healing here.
Welcome. I hope that you can find peace and healing here.
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Thank you everyone for the warm greetings.