Fleur's 2018 thoughts

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Hanging with you while you're in hospital. Bringing coloring books,markers , puzzles, cards, if you'd like to doodle or play together.
(((Fleur)))
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I deserve better than survival.
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Hi Fleur

I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and sending healing wishes.

With caring
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Hi Fleur,

Still hanging out with you also if ok.
Hope there is something there to distract or pass the time, even a tiny bit.
Lots of caring,

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How're you doing, Fleur?
Gentle hug for you.
All women are beautiful. Period.
I deserve better than survival.
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Thank you there Couragetoday Ashia for messages

In hospital until Wed. Another two sleeps

Really dislike being public patient. So many different students and health professional staff asking similar stuff

Today new dr asked why the iv antibiotic changed. How would I know?! Had pharmacist check medicine … two different people. One looks after meds for inpatients the other discharge tablets. BUT same queries

My sister phoned. She and her youngest daughter are cat lovers. Can't bear the idea of Soxy being hungry. So they are driving here to get my keys feed Soxy return keys then drive back. Sister has tomorrow off. Niece has Uni classes. They reckon they'll be in bed before midnight. I just hope and pray for their safety. Roads will be slippery

Finally a Dr agreed to stronger pain meds so am more comfortable

See new T Wed pm. Think I shall have lunch at hospital then take bus to T. Be nice to relax in her waiting space. Then I can return home. Thankfully I have three small zippered bags to carry everything as opposed to the suitcase I had originally thought. The bags all fit in the tiny wardrobe much preferable to having large case

I mailed T the first lot of paperwork which means we can discuss that on Wed. Otherwise it would be at home

Felt hungry after dinner so bought a savoury from the cafeteria. Proof positive I am improving

As usual Am very tired. Also tired of callers who either hang up or say nothing when phone is answered


Wishing Us all a peaceful evening restorative sleep followed by a beautiful day
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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Dear Fleur,

So glad you are feeling better. I hope this means you are on the mend. Health is truly a gift to be cherished. Take of yourself like the jewel that we know. So glad Soxy is taken care and you can just get well. Let us know when you get out of the hospital.

with care,
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Still thinking of you Fleur.
Hope you have made it home by now?
And hope Soxy is well feed and happy too.

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Sending healing thoughts to you, Fleur.
Glad to see that you are feeling positive and staying grounded during this time.

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oh my gosh! {{{FLEUR!!!}}}

sorry to read of renct med/hosp 'adventures'. so very sorry.
& a belated birthday wish too
hope ya are feelin better, that things'll start lookin up soon.
smiled to read that soxy has 'calvery to the rescue'
been thinkin-a ya; yer sexy aussie fire guys are here, helpin w/ our horrendous fires - much gratitude to all on the fire lines; paryers & donations to those impacted.

wantin for ya to 'get back to ~normal~' asap; to get & to have sum respite from illness/unwellness, {{FLEUR!!}} - ya've MORE'N earned it!!
sendin tons of love, care, soft pillows, comfy blankies, tea & comfort
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Hello Reisha wolfspirit Couragetoday Harmony and anyone who reads....

Thank you for messages. Really great to return to site and feel the caring

Well... being a public patient one is subject to many opinions. It did make sense to have specialists attend me in the ward immediately rather than go on a somewhat lengthy wait list as an outpatient. Relieved to be considered as a whole person not an illness. I had MH skin blood heart physicians plus several wanting reassurance that I would keep neurological and other appointments. Community nursing is to begin on Monday

Wednesday's T appt was amazing. First I used wrong bus so had a long walk. Despite which I arrived 2 minutes before the hour. Had some time to calm as she was quarter of an hour late. Then she helped me process being still in hospital. Followed by analysis of my paperwork. Then action plan. Just wow. Never have I met such a T. Who not only tells me what bothers me the most but I don't waffle. I stayed with her. Only gave examples of the difficulty SHE pinpointed

See her again at end of month. T says if we tackle issues too fast my insiders will sabotage ... Need to give time for adjustment. Homework - to thank all of self for being actively engaged in my welfare. Literally have kept me alive. Now it is time to change experience

Soxy meowed such a lot last night and again today ... Would really like to know what he says. Is it welcome home or more what took you so long????

Need to get to church early as I am to lead opening before Bible study


May we each have a beautiful weekend
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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